A recent discovery and a confession of delusion

The Discovery:
Cooking with real buttermilk (if a recipe calls for it) is so.much.better. than cooking with homemade buttermilk (1 c. milk + 1 tbsp of vinegar + 10 min sitting time).  Just FYI.

The Confession of Delusion:
Over the weekend I learned I have been delusional in my expectations of who I am capable of being in this post-baby life.  I am finding it impossible (so far) to be as successful juggling all of my various roles without hurting or sacrficing some other role. 
This lesson leaves me wondering if this is a temporary change in my life (simultaneous with the infant stage) or is this something I can expect to subside as time goes on and as I become more comfortable in my post-baby life?